HNT #35: Frost on the Pumpkins Makes Floridians put Clothes on!

Now don't get too excited -- it just means that we actually have to wear some clothes at night for a couple of months! It'll be warm enough again by Valentine's Day to get nekkid for our Sweetie(s). And I have HIGH HOPES!! Of course, if you already have Sweeties in your bed, disregard all mention of clothes! (It's probably too hot in there for you, as it IS!)

Here's a pic of the first PJ's I've worn in years! It's a true original HNT idea -- just a little skin showing, but no sex..... Altho I assure you Pre-Registration for Holiday Sex is about to open. Female registrants should send me eMail for an application! ;-)

TAMPA BAY IS HERE TO STAY!!

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Oh Ye of little Faith! Wait to believe til the 7th game of the American League Championship Series playoffs but, Boston, you had a run in your red pussy stockings - LOL It was the wrong KIND of run tho' -- Sunday night you needed BASEBALL runs and you didn't do it! I know... the blue cowbells musta thrown you off! So sorry...

SAY HEY, RAYS! Thanks to you, I now have a date for a World Series game with the Wing House bartender from the new WH 2009 Calendar known as Miss May! I certainly hope she MAY! (Don't tell her I said that -- it was a cheap joke, but I couldn't resist playing with the words.) She is gorgeous, tan, sexy, and still uses a "special" I.D. at sports bars in the area! Oh yes, she has 2 very small, feminine tats and piercings! And, if I get a special kiss, I'm gonna tattoo her initial on my WH Memorial Bicep! Stay tuned... Now, back to housecleaning!

HNT #34: Not Sure What I Had for You in my Computer

Let's see what I can find.....




Ah, yes... Here's a special, young friend of mine who will vote in her first election this year! She made some special pics just for me. We're May - December, you know. She wants to make some more pics BY and WITH me, she said. Guess I'm still a little shy....I've really been celibate way too long! LOL

But I really have to get "my place" presentable first. I just wouldn't be comfortable with it otherwise. With that in mind, I'd better get started cleaning..... C Ya!

PS: Happy HNT! (Leave lots of comments, K?)

I didn't know Hospice does grief counseling for ex-spouses, too!

I've been keeping up text messages and a phone call every day or two to each son. Idea is to check on their adjustment, to make sure they seem to be adjusting OK to their mother's death less than a week ago, and to share ideas and facts on the evolving situation as it gives me special insight into our personal story!

So far, things seem to be going alright. The older son, especially, is making all the arrangements for her body to be cremated in Tallahassee and have her ashes scattered on her extended family's main ranch, El Colorado, in south Texas. I'm sure he is learning a lot of new things dealing with probate attorneys, etc. Once I got a copy of her death certificate, do you think I'll be able to convince my tax attorney he really ought to get the IRS to collect her taxes from HER estate instead of directly and wrongly from ME, like they have tried to do for 20 years, now? I TOLD you she would still be causing me trouble because of her self-centered narcissism! Her body wasn't the only thing that was sick!!

"Ding, Dong.... the Witch is Dead!"

[Copyright 2000, all below by this blog's author]


TERMS OF ENDEARMENT

Once you have a relationship
you can never
Not-have-a-relationship
til one or the other [de]ceases.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder
Or
Out of sight, out of mind
But, not nothing.

Til ONE is nothing.
And then you have --- a memory.



I don't know what pic I'll find to post. I have none of her anymore. But I will extend the 24 hours a little that I gave not to speak ill of the dead. She passed away at 12:25 AM, Wed., 8 Oct 2008 in the ICU of a Tallahassee hospital. She told our sons to go home the preceding evening and, "See you tomorrow." About 2:30 PM of that "tomorrow," I started to get phone calls while I was in the shower and had left the phone by this computer. By the time I heard the urgent, second set of rings, I sensed what they must have been about. Checking the cell's "last call list," I found an uncharacteristically-timed call from my best friend in Tallahassee. My friend confirmed what I had expected. He had called when I didn't answer the sons' previous 2 calls from the shower.

He was surprised that I had no change in attitude or plans about what I was or was not going to do. It figures 'cause he has little psychological insight into ANYone's behavior or what causes it, ANYway! (History "majors" must understand facts, not relationships.) Which leaves him in the cold about any real understanding of the "no-fault" misery she is STILL causing me! WORSE than worthless... Thanks for NOTHING, EX-. We really did NOT deserve each other!