HNT #48: Always check this Blog's sidebar for new nekkid pics each week!

OK, True to my word, I have changed the sidebar half-nekkid pics as I do every week for HNT. Check 'em all out! After 2 months, my builder finished the final painting in the new room yesterday so I'm adding a leisure pic taken today altho not originally in the plan for this week. I may take next week off if I don't get any comments -- I've changed to some pretty straight articles lately & doubt their popularity.

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Now, this pic is probably the closest thing ur ever gonna see to my getting an X-rating! LOL ---- Happy HNT!

HNT #47 -- See OHNT for today's pic post

For pics, I may actually start to tip you off when I am gonna be on The Other HNT in any given week. We'll have to see how long that lasts!

(Over the years, I've had quite a few up there. Have you spotted any before? If so, why don't you just tell me how many and/or in what month/year but not what they look like -- I still need some anonymity, but I'm curious how observant you think you've been/are. Some of mine WERE pretty-well disguised.)
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OK, I'm going to add a little here that will undoubtedly continue in future weeks. I'm adding this as I listen/watch a regular Christian church service on evening TV. Part of why tonight is to offer my worship (such as it is) in hopes that the Creator will look kindly on my favorite WingHouse Girl #1 who surprisingly, asked me to include her in my prayers that she might get hired at the medical office where she is serving her Associate's Degree "externship." It is sort of an emergency medical center and she is LOVING it ALL! She really beams with having found a true career (& a respectable, professional one) at a perfect time in her life (age 25 3/4). She is a smart person and very attuned to people, and I know loves the compliment she received just the day before from the Doctor in charge about her work ethic and helpfulness and enthusiasm at work!

This is VERY cool for MANY reasons, but she was already in my prayers for many reasons. I have noticed how she really seems oriented to going on (if only she had the $$) to finish her R.N. and BSN degree! Her telling me this was fortuitous as I was about to present her with a medical-scrubs top I had mail-ordered from Florida State University in Tallahassee. When I gave it to her, I felt a little Divine Influence intervening as she then called it "perfect" cuz her medical office had just decided on Fridays everyone should wear scrubs from their favorite school & she didn't have any yet! (Thanks, God, for helping me help a girl whom I love find herself a little happier & belonging where we both think she belongs!)

But, to ask me to say PRAYERS for her, surprised me! I'm guessing her family has sort of a watered-down generic Christian view like so many Americans, and I do not disparage that because I think Life has recently watered down MY view of the validity of many aspects of Christianity. But I guess she heard from her best friend that I was including the friend in special prayers & daily TV worship so the friend would get accepted for the one rare Nursing School slot that had just opened up to recent A.A. degree grads & the friend was hoping for. Now the friend did not get selected for the rare slot in spite of her brightness and need and deserving nature, so it added to my surprise since my prayers didn't seem to be effective other than in building our hope and faith observance. But one never knows and I believe it cannot HURT to have people pray sincerely for your good intentions -- especially when we cannot do anything else. It IS doing something when we have done everything else that we can!

My beloved WH Girl FURTHER shocked me by saying she was thinking of going to church soon with another WH Girl she had formerly worked with as a bartender here in Palm Harbor. I don't think this is a giant "true believer" conversion but I think it's revealing an interesting aspect of reverence I had previously sensed in my friend but had never before heard or seen direct evidence of. Which tells ME it's sincere -- not like a few fakey WH Girls I've known in the past who put Christian crosses all over their MySpace pages and then sluttify their bodies regularly to throw people off what is REALLY on their minds! It's further proof of positive intervention because I think both church-bound girls have recovered from terrible drug problems in the past! My friend is a very honest, very responsible young woman who does not rely on other people to do HER work or pick up HER responsibilities, but I see this as a good sign that she recognizes humans cannot control or influence EVERYthing in their own lives. And that a certain amount of respect for a Higher Power's involvement and role is both realistic and appropriately modest.

The only thing I'm a little concerned about is that my #1 Girl is a very sexy girl. She is realistically and admirably fun-loving and sexy. But, I doubt she is aware of one of the toughest aspects of orthodox and mainstream Christianity -- a relatively antithetical attitude toward overt sexuality outside of marriage. (Some denominations are "worse" than others about condemning all sexuality outside of heterosexual marriages, but all Christianity is clearly negativistic toward sexuality.) Each denomination and individual Christian has his/her own position with respect to sex. But I just want to caution my friend and will send her a copy of this article to be aware and non-plussed by others' INtolerance when she sees it. Not to be surprised. Most Christians don't always have very Christ-like attitudes or behavior. After all, as Christians, they're supposed to admit to being sinners too! ;-)

Me? Sinner or not, I believe in One God, the Father Almighty, Maker of Heaven and Earth. I try to do right and make this world a better place. Sometimes, I even succeed! At least, I try.

!Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday, Chicas & Chicos!
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HNT #46 - On Being Slutty

[I send out a regular "Forward" (to some sexy ladies I know) of a subscription I get of "Naughty Bits" from Karen of Denver. Some of you surely subscribe already, too -- I discovered it through HNT! The one I got on 6 July 2009 was funny in an ironically true sense, and I'll see if I can copy the pic to insert below. But with THIS one, I really DID have to editorialize with some of my ideas on sluttiness. Please note, I say nothing about my ex-wife, here! I will share 2 sincere paragraphs below that I wrote to accompany the pic Forwarded to my sexy WingHouse lady-friends!]


OK Gang, I think this one bears deeper thought than most jokes & that's part of the humor, of course! This applies to GUYS as well as GIRLS, too! Although I think everyone recognizes the double standard IS still alive and still hits girls harder than guys! Many girls who sex-blog write about being sluts and loving it; I suspect everyone likes to play the slut at one time or another (including guys.) But if I had a daughter, I'd warn her against the guys who will use her as their slut plaything as long as they can and then drop her as soon as they have another reason or tire of her (often to seduce her back as soon as they get horny again.) I guess this works with modern GIRLS toward guys too, but frankly, I still believe in love and committed companionship as the MOST valuable relationship to seek after. 'Fraid I ain't ever gonna see it tho--thought I HAD it, but was I EVER MISTAKEN! LOL (Trust but verify!)

So, all that considered, I guess it's a good thing I know I'm not a person of "the world" cuz I'm just not gonna "settle" again! I'd rather be alone. I will probably get my wish. I hope you all have better luck! But, please, THINK about it before you just "fall into a relationship" that might be demeaning or self-destructive--you are worth much, much more!! Have fun acting sexxy and "playing slutty" sometimes, but I'd recommend not to become a full-time slut because when you are ready to quit that, many OTHERS will not treat you as anything else BUT!)

Now, tell me, is THIS Slutty? HAPPY H.N.T.!

HNT #45 - Breaking Free on the 4th of July!

This post begins a bit of a new era -- more revealing and honest in my deeper, personal reflections concerning the state of modern American sexual behavior. Many of you will not like aspects of my reflections because you will disagree with them, undoubtedly, because your own lifestyle and upbringing was so very different from mine. Yet, I will not be condemning anyone -- I just think a lot of the current behavior doesn't make good intellectual or logical sense & intellect and "common sense" really ought to be involved a little more when it comes to taking care of our most private and personal parts.

Current behavior, to wit: All the extensive fucking-around! I mean, REALLY! At least from the blogs we all read around here and are pruriently interested in (me too!). The old joke reference about a man using his LITTLE head more than his BIG one seems right on! Only it's not just MEN!! American women as a group, seem to have just devolved into a horny, hedonistic bunch since the advent of the Birth Control Pill in the mid-60's! American women NOW seem to be as sexually promiscuous as the famous American playboys of the pre-60's! Mainly, since they can fuck around in private (secret) and never be held accountable for it as long as they don't show a baby-bump! (It is also a small step for some from there to pretending that terminating a pregnancy is just another impersonal form of birth control instead of killing their own genetic copies were the copies allowed to grow to maturity!)

Now, I'm really not getting all holier-than-thou cuz I had premarital intercourse, too -- and Boy, have I paid for it! LOL!! MORE than MY fair share of "dues" -- which proves to me that the Dues on anything are ALWAYS more than the one who pays them would think fair! Now, maybe you will excuse me cuz I thought I was in love and I thought SHE was in love with me instead of just wanting to get security in a place other than the home and environment where I found out, many years later, she had been molested. I am beginning to write my autobiographical historical fiction/novel again, and I'll address the details there (although the initial posts have been on another secret blog for over 5 years now.)

Along with the scary freedom of greater self-revelation, this 4th of July could celebrate other freedoms I care about. Freedom, not licentiousness or irresponsibility (which are false and careless sorts of freedom, to MY mind.) The freedom of showing more of my physical self on OHNT as well as on the beach (I HAVE lost significant weight this year) is one. I've even traded some semi-nude pics with a couple of young ladies for a new first; ask me & I might say yes to YOU if you're female, young, and pretty. OR just SEND them to me for MY appreciation & eyes only if you don't wanna see "Old Guys Rule" pics! LOL

OK, this looks like a good place for an HNT pic made today as we are working on my porch conversion (to a new room, not a new religion.). Looks like my financial freedom is finally well set, too with 3 companies' monthly retired paychecks(although I WOULD like to be a Florida Millionaire after the special July 4 Lottery Drawing. I have 2 tickets numbered at just over 500,000 and I don't think they are going to sell all one million tickets by the time of the single special drawing on July 4 -- in less than 3 days!)

At last, I could finally afford the lawyers I have needed for "peripheral damage control" ever since my then-wife went overly self-serving and sociopathically crazy umpteen years ago. I still would like the mental & emotional freedom of vindication and justice that that could bring! THAT would mean FIREWORKS FOREVER! In confrontation AND celebration!