HNT #74: Marriage is Outmoded because people are not Trustworthy!

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HNT #73 - LADIES, I GOT RID OF THE TOWEL. Now, Please, Read about Adoption Phone # below!

Okay, getting ready to step into the shower so I dropped the towel to honor a couple ladies who commented on this Blog last week. Could you give me a hand, now? Mine are rather full, you see. ; )

But, I want everyone to know that I searched & added this nekkid pic long AFTER I wrote the article & I didn't select it as I was writing about my pregnant ex-gf. That pregnant ex-gf got far more than her fair share of what she deserved from me by lying and playing on my feelings and sense of honor. The old saying rings true for her: "There is no honor among thieves!" Especially not among manipulative, sperm thieves like her! It also stole my youth and freedom from me before I even realized there was "a market" for my kind of eligible bachelor. Ex- and her lies took me off the market for well over a dozen years!

Please tuck the important info below away in case you ever know anyone who is pregnant and needs help. Counseling to consider ALL alternatives helps to make the best decision for every individual person. I found out the info that I wish I had had when MY girlfriend got pregnant back in the day. I had never even CONSIDERED Adoption as an alternative and it WAS a critically important option that changed my life significantly NOT to have considered! It is an option I would like to have realized I had available.

AMERICAN ADOPTIONS AGENCY has a 24/7 number, 1-800-236-7846 (1-800-ADOPTION) to give you info about how they & good adoptive parents will pay all living expenses (rent, clothes, utilities, paid time lost from work, etc.) during a pregnancy, and pay for all medical costs including hospital & delivery. This # is a central phone to an agency person who can put you in touch with an agency contact in your community, but they also CAN GIVE ALL THE INFO ABOUT THEIR FREE PROGRAM AND arrange for a LOCAL AGENCY CONTACT TO COME VISIT YOU IN A DAY OR TWO (with no obligation, of course.) BTW, they tell me that the "BabyDaddy" doesn't have to agree or be involved in the decision.

It's just that people really ought to consider ALL the possibilities before taking action on a very important life decision. Thanks for letting me share this info with you.

Cheers & love, Richard

HNT #72 - First Full-Nekkid Pic (HERE, anyway.)

For the first time ever on my regular blog, I'm ALL nekkid -- but I think I may have managed to conceal one of my finer points a little. Check it out & let me know if your software detected my hardware, K? I need to know about these things!

The flag pictured is from my Aussie friend who was posted in Fiji a couple of years ago with their diplomatic corps. I am always surprised how readily citizens of the British commonwealth of nations freely allow reproduction of their flags as a theme or decoration on common items like the tea towel, here. Especially since strict US flag etiquette for decades has prohibited using the US flag as a decoration.

The US policy has been lightening up here ever since the Hippies & the 60's. I might even have some folks question the US Flag as background in my big tattoo next month -- even I questioned it. So, I decided I don't want to have an exact flag representation but, rather, "our Colors" depicted flaggy or flag-like . This reminds me to insert a tattoo pic from a Native American Indian friend to show an ingenious artistic, use of our patriotic colors in beautiful skin art; if there's no pic below this, I couldn't find it & will add it another week.

I should also mention I HAVE gotten back to doing my drawing again, finally -- and something serious! A Beautiful, Sexxy Girl! Love or Lust, I LIKE IT! I'm going slowly & deliberately like a nice, long, lovemaking session in my mind -- when I touch the drawing, my mind is caressing her skin & body. I want it to last, so I go long and slow. For her privacy's sake, I probably can't post a pic when I finish but I may tease you with occasional progress updates or a snippet.

I was going to add a rant but that was a few days ago & I'm not in the mood to rant about much tonight. I could go on about a new term I just discovered when reading some of the HNT posts of others: Romantic Friendship! But if you want to find out more about it today, go to Wikipedia & search for "Romantic Friendship." I think that's really all I've been looking for in a relationship the last 5 - 10 years but I don't think any young modern KNOWS what that means or why anyone would want it. I knew what it was, I just didn't know what it was called. It's a term from antiquity but I'm not old-fashioned. I just think independently like many wise people who don't follow the crowd but prefer to do what they think makes the most sense in any given situation.

Military Sniper's One Mile - Kill Shot (Not make-believe)

Date: Fri, 27 Aug 2010 14:38:04 EDT
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It shows actual recent combat footage of sniper kills of insurgent bad guys from a mile away in order to save outnumbered Marines in contact. It shows "red wall" aftereffects. I know that's what our 20mm gatling guns did on our Air Force AC-130 "Spectre" Gunship but at 3000 - 6000 feet AGL (& a longer slant range) & no sniper scope, we just KNEW what it was doing (making a "red mist") and we didn't have to see it. That seeing-it repeatedly, even of enemy soldiers, can and HAS caused many troops PTSD nightmares & flashbacks. It can be readily cured if addressed in a PROFESSIONAL Combat Veterans PTSD therapy group such as the VA and Vet Centers have provided for the last 20 years.

Troops are inclined to do the exact WRONG thing and deny it and try to numb out with alcohol & drugs so they don't have to face it. One can never get away from their own memory or mind, tho. Working THROUGH it, one has to deal with it in a supportive group of other vets to see it is a normal reaction to an abnormal situation or environment. Then, THEY CAN READJUST TO FUNCTIONING NORMALLY IN A LESS ABNORMAL ENVIRONMENT.

Cheers, RICH
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http://shock.military.com/Shock/videos.do?displayContent=219051&ESRC=army-a.nl

HNT #71 - My latest tattoo addition!!

Note the medal in the middle: the Meritorious Service Medal! Awarded in my case for continuous & constant, sustained support and work throughout 4 years at the United States Air Force Academy: 60 - 80 hours each week, & no 0vertime pay for uniformed military! It is depicted here in the correct order of precedence between the DFC (Distinguished Flying Cross) and the Air Medal.

I was awarded 8 other medals & multiple Oak Leaf Clusters, but I want to highlight my career with just these 3 highest here! They attest to the fact that I served my country well & honorably!

A couple of weeks earlier, I had my forearm band totally re-inked to brighten the colors. Tattoo wearers (collectors) need to use SPF 100 to preserve their tats (esp. colors) from sunlight; I had been incorrectly told SPF 50 was sufficient. This forearm band appears to be a Celtic design but it has a military/naval history. This is a very simple version of the Turk's Head Knot that ancient mariners used to while away the hours by tying them around the wooden masts of the old sailing ships. The US Navy used them for ceremonial decorations until very recently. General Lord Baden-Powell adapted this knot as a neckerchief slide for recognition of his highest trained Scoutmasters, those graduating the "Wood Badge" course. [I'm proud to be a "Wood Badger," myself.]

Here's how they all look together:

Tommy is the artist at Mike Sizemore's "Kill Em All Tattoo" in Clearwater, FL who re-inked the armband. Mike did all the other work seen here + my Gangster Girlie portrait on the inside of the arm; with 15 years' experience & excellent portrait ability, he's worth the $150/hr charge.

But Tommy ($100/hr) & I have figured out how to finish this half-sleeve with a consistent patriotic theme: All visible parts open around these tatts will show red & white stripes like the US flag unfurling as the background. My shoulder will be topped by various size negative (white) stars at the top surrounded by bright blue outside the stars fading out further away. I'd like to have a few stars closer to the neck and a few falling off on the sides of the flag. FREE stars, not in any tight pattern! (Now that I am finally fairly free in my life.)

Only a very special reason will lead me to add anymore tattoos beyond this half-sleeve. If a new girl I love gives the OK, I'll probably add a small, anonymous portrait of her perfect breasts to one corner of my chest so I can enjoy her beauty whenever I want! Proof that I will NEVER forget her! A tattoo's forever!

HNT #70 - Happy Belated 5th Anniversary, HNT! 4-year Evolution of a WingHouse Regular's Tattoo!

My HNT #1 - This first pic is of the 2nd tat I ever got -- 5 years ago, I had no tattoos whatsoever. Now I have 6-8, depending on how you count, & one more on the way in 2 weeks! Actually, the wings here were just the beginning of an ongoing tattoo that I have added more pieces to over the last 3-4 years since I got it. It evolved, but I knew I liked the basic design taken from the WingHouse logo. I was an AF flyer & I missed my wings.

BTW, if you click here: http://www.winghouse.com/ , you can go to the WingHouse Girls' photo galleries and select each one of the locations. There you will see photos of most of the bartenders & servers in unique Dress-To-Impress outfits which happen one day near a big holiday every couple of months. They pay to buy (or make) and then doll up in their sexy, new outfits -- Customers that day get to vote for their favorite outfit which gets only 1 girl of 15 a $100 cash prize and another a $75 cash prize. Since most of them shell out about that much on their outfits to dress up for you, be sure to leave them a really good tip that day!

I just wasn't sure what I wanted to put in the circle altho my first favorite WH bartender's initials, BH, were a possibility I was considering.


OK, I finally found my WH Tat current as I began writing this article 3 weeks ago -- let's see if I can get it in here! Yeah, looks like I got it transferred OK. However, there is one little update: Change the K to an H since H****** planted a COUPLE of great, unsolicited kisses on my lips IN the WingHouse on her day off! Whatta girl! I gotta find her again & make sure she knows her H replaced Krista's K a whole year ago! Krista started denying the true facts on how she used to cheek-kiss the CORNER of my lips to sweet-talk me out of more loans and bigger tips! Screw YOU, Krista! (Altho I never would now, huh?)

A little more explanation to decode this tattoo: It's mostly hidden under my left arm placing these special WH Girls "under my wing" and keeping them close to my heart! You'll notice the blue wind added to represent that these girls were the wind beneath my wings at one time or another. I am going to add an "A" and another B for some new, young kissers who've made out with me! (Well, one dry, 2-sec. kiss on the lips at least one time. LOL)

Some time passed since I started writing this article and, on Memorial Day, I added some important updates on the way back from Orlando's tattoo convention. And the changes are likely to be the last additions to this tat for some time. Notice in the picture below that the "B" now has a "3" superscript indicating 2 more girls whose first name begins with a "B". The contest's B-category is now officially "closed." All remaining intials in the alphabet remain open for adding higher powers above their initial. It doesn't matter whether a WH Girl plants one on me outside in broad daylight around town or surreptitiously in my Mobile Home Park 8-minutes north of the local WingHouse.

What matters is that they are or have BEEN WingHouse Girls; I guess I should allow FUTURE WingHouse Girls to try out too, but I now have a 17-year-old on the waiting list until her 18th birthday. (She's BEEN on it since she was a 16-y.o. WingHouse part-time "Hostess" opening the doors to greet & seat patrons, but not to serve alcohol. I address her as "My Favorite Jailbait" just so I'm reminded she has to stay on the waiting list until next January! I do accept girl-initiated platonic hugs, however! ;-)

HNT #69: T-Bird Pics for Maeve (Sorry they were delayed, Doll!)

I've really wanted to post these T-Bird pics for awhile but first, I had to get the tree crud and mildew swept off and scrub my Bird with soap & bleach!! The only day I had to do it a couple of weeks ago, it was 2:30 PM in the bright Florida sunshine when I finally bought the rest of the cleaning materials & got over to Ted's. After 3 hours of hard scrubbing and sweating, I had only 60% of it done when I stopped before passing out from heat exhaustion! (Yes, I know I'm out of shape, LOL!) I was staying hydrated but I've noticed that summer heat "cooks" the insulin right out of my body that I take oral meds for! THAT was probably playing in the action, too. I'd forgotten--haven't been out in the sun working for months!) We've had lots of Spring sun in the Sunshine State, but I seem to focus too often on this computer (eMail more than blogs, obviously) and housecleaning!

Anyway, here's Ted, my car guy -- back after shopping or doing counseling work with his church group rescuing strippers from sin at one of the local strip clubs, the "Mons Venus" (I think he said). I didn't know any of this until he explained what was up as he washed the T-Bird. He had 2 young women he just evangelized on this day who want to make the jump to a more godly, sinless existence. One declared she would give up the $25,000 wages of sin she'd been offered to pose in Playboy magazine. Since there are so many girls doing drugs & casual sex in the stripper lifestyle, I'm glad for his success. I've noticed that many good-looking girls in this area seem to get into bartending or serving drinks & food immediately after high school, and to make ends meet living on their own (with no education or credentials except bartending experience), they often turn into the proverbial "party girls" going out nightly after they get off work between 9PM and 2AM!

So many places here have "Ladies' Nights" with free drinks or 2-4-1 specials for women, I now know why I see a lot of the girls I care about developing dysfunctional drinking habits in their early 20's! Beautiful in earlier calendar pictorials, they lost their stunning looks by age 26 from profligate use of sex, alcohol, tobacco, and drugs. (So many treat "weed" as if it's not a drug, OMFG! DUH!) Oh, and EVERYONE has a 21-I.D. long before they're 21--they get served easily cuz the tourist-based economy encourages lax enforcement to produce good business profit. (I was surprised that servers & bartenders in Florida do not need to be 21 to make or serve alcoholic drinks!) No WONDER there's a fucking drinking problem in this young age group. I see very few with serious life or academic goals and, as a consequence, their predominant belief-system is Hedonism!

Oh, before I got off on that rant, I was going to tell you Ted WAS a Godsend -- unexpectedly, he cleaned the remaining 40% of the T-Bird while I continued to recover. In all fairness, it was much cooler by the time he got home. Actually, knowledgeable Floridians schedule their heavier work out-of-doors for the cooler morning and evening hours. I gotta remember that -- I've lived in Florida for 28 years now {OMG!} and I STILL don't feel like a Floridian. But most of the people here now also came from somewhere else -- I actually fit right in, that way!

Now, the 2nd & 3rd pics just show the classic lines of this clean, 1959 Ford Thunderbird! After we got it all cleaned up, I could see why Ted prefers it "all original." I'm tempted to leave it in its original white paint after we sandblast the little bit of rust off all the metal edges. I can see where it retains its classic original design beauty that way, and would be worth far more $$ than if I "trick it out" in a candy-apple red like I've always wanted in a jazzy car I own. But I'm not doing this to resell it -- I'm fixing it up so my older son can inherit it! LOL! Well, I DO want to drive it around and turn a few heads and give some pretty ladies rides in it out to our excellent beaches! A couple WingHouse hotties already want to have a professional photo shoot as they lie all over My Bird! Hot Damn!

How about YOU, Maeve? You check in here, yet? Wanna lay out at the beach with my Bird? ;-) We have no oil yet anywhere near Clearwater Beach (Gulf Coast/ Tampa Bay area) so hurry cuz it HAS reached NW Florida! (No oil but you might feel some wetness.)

PS: Won't be able to submit another post for a couple weeks as I'm taking my old Gateway back in for a Hard Transplant (DRIVE, that is).

HNT #68 - Tanning Booth Undressing

Well, this pic is not so clear or inventive, but it IS current -- Took it today at the local Hot Spot about 4 PM and just beat the rush which tends to fill up all the tanning booths on the tanners' way home from work! Don't think I have much time to clean it up before HNT, but I'll try.

This pic was taken as I started to strip down to tan nearly nude. I don't know if you saw a similar pic I took a few months ago, but I can see a definite lessening of the spare tire around my middle. Since I know my WH Girls are all trying to get skinni for Bikini Season which is about ON TOP of us, I tell them I have to get ready for Bikini Season too, & that usually gets a laugh! Of course, they don't see me like THIS or they might think I would actually wear a speedo suit at a public beach! If my legs had no bad scarring and less fat, I'd consider it. But, seriously, I DO want to wear my swim trunks low on my hips so my Good-Evil tat will definitely show as I walk down our local beaches! (I am, therefore, continuing my quest for less tonnage and more tannage!)

For what it's worth, my '59 Thunderbird restoration is progressing to the point where Ted, my car guy, wants us to take it to the local fancy Burger Place parking lot this Friday evening to show it off. NOTE: THE LICENSE PLATE TO THE LEFT IS MINE FOREVER AS LONG AS I PAY FL's ANNUAL FEES ON TIME!!! There is a LOT left to do -- we have barely begun but it now has all the significant body work on the left rear quarter panel pounded out, bondoed, and primer painted. It also has the 5 new special-order, bias-ply, white sidewalls to match the rest of the original "survivor" characteristics of this classic car--highly unusual in that this car has ALWAYS been "on the road" & kept in a driveable state. One reason that it IS in such good shape must be that my aunt & uncle in Sacramento (CA) always kept it parked in an enclosed garage at their home and only drove it on special occasions. Those tires were mounted on the original rims that Ted had ground & sandblasted free of all rust buildups.

This restoration work is very labor intensive and Ted is a perfectionistic stickler not to just rush it through in a half-ass manner like a normal car-and-body shop would to finish and get paid. Ted multi-tasks long-term projects from different people which allows me to limit the expenditures for his labor and parts to $1000 each month. That way, I can afford it out of my retired pay and Ted can enjoy restoring this first classic T-Bird of his restoration career. He is "a 1-man car shop" & fixes normal cars normally, too. Ted really DOES do everything a "car guy" COULD do (including buying, transporting, and selling) with a motor vehicle. For a 51-year old car, my T-Bird has only a little rust buildup in a few edges of panels which Mike will sandblast off before he primes and paints the exterior in the "candy-apple red" I want to finish this T-Bird in. That color is the only change I will have made to the original car equipment and appearance in this restoration.

The eventual complete replacement of interior white & red leather will have to wait awhile til I have enough money saved to do that. However, my car guy already found a local lady he did car work for who can reupholster the complete interior. Ted is MUCH more impressed with the value & showmanship capability of this T-Bird than I am, but restoring classic cars ARE his thing! I know nothing about them and cars have never been a central part of my life as I never got to own ANY car until I graduated with my 4-year university degree and took an Air Force commission as a 2nd Lieutenant.

Ted says the value of this restored "Survivor" Thunderbird will far exceed the COST of restoring it, but that really doesn't matter to ME! My lifetime mentors, values, & experiences always taught me never to do things primarily for money or what they will do for how I look, nor to make others envious of me. And I will NEVER sell it! I am doing this because this car has overriding sentimental value as a family heirloom left by 2 of my most adored and adoring relatives ever and, apparently, my aunt had promised it to my older son before senility robbed her of her memory. That detail was not in her Will and I was her sole beneficiary so it is up to me to make her intent happen. But, since that son is also inheriting everything I have when I go (& is NOT paying for this restoration), I'm going to have a fair amount of personal fun with this classic antique car before I go! Ted keeps swearing that it will take all kinds of prizes in car shows he would enter it in but, you know, I'm just not THAT "into" all the fol-de-rol! Next week, CAR pics of everyone's rides on view Friday at the Burger Place!

HNT #67 - Half-Nekkid Monty au naturel

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HNT #66 - The Full Monty

WELL! You can tell that Monty IS rather full-size from the glimpse of his base to which the sock is clinging tightly. (Over 2" diameter -- I had no idea that gave a quite large erection girth (circumference) until I ran across some documented size-stats on HNT blogs. Formula for GIRTH is "pi" times Diameter so 3.1416 X 2" = 6.2826". More than the average bare bear.)

Since middle-average LENGTH = 6 inches, I suspect an average length in a man's erection would appear shorter visually if accompanying an above-average girth. Photos of isolated pics of only one erection-owner may be misleading. Variations in physical profiles are certainly evident from the examples displayed on OHNT! Surely, thin cocks look longer just because their girth is less. So which would a happy lady choose if she couldn't have both long & thick!? (BTW, "dick" means "thick" in German, LOL.) Please leave a vote for YOUR personal preference in the Comments section, if you dare. In the interest of scientific data collection, I pledge not to be offended by anyone's preference, LOL! (Chagrined maybe but not offended.)

Scientist-trained as I am, I further hypothesize that "size queens" develop from habituation to intercourse or viewing porn with well-endowed men whose porn star activity levels surely develop out of confidence & sexual aggressiveness stimulated by perceptions of their larger endowments! I don't handle other guys' dicks (I'm not a urologist, LOL) but, as a social scientist, I'm entitled to make some decent experimental hypotheses and let someone ELSE collect the data. Anyone need a PhD research topic for his/her dissertation?



Well, Ladies, here's a thick dick for you.... Guess I'm gonna have to keep it covered so it doesn't get burned or too tan, eh? Burning might cause pain instead of pleasure (a major purpose of this appendage).

Now, if this not-too-shy pic isn't enough of a Full Monty for you, check out Miss Kitty and one cool cat below THIS pic! ;-)




Time for glasses!
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HNT #65 - Intro to the Monty!

Now, before I let you see MY fly area, let me give you a link to a lotta shots of some REAL SEXY FLY !! If you like flies, you may or may not like these -- but you gotta admit, they are stimulating, exciting, hott, and even sexually arousing! You've never ridden a fly as fast as what I show you here! Go ahead, click the link! You know you want some FINE, FAST, FLY!

http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=e00_1200042782


If you checked that out, you may be disappointed by the fly below -- I'm not as fast as I once was. (But I'm as fast once as I EVER was!) LOL Oh, WAIT A MINUTE! I didn't mean it THAT way cuz now I'm hard for hours with modern medicine!