TAMPA BAY IS HERE TO STAY!!

CLICK HERE TO SEE THE LAST OUT AGAIN: ----> http://tampabay.rays.mlb.com/index.jsp?c_id=tb

Oh Ye of little Faith! Wait to believe til the 7th game of the American League Championship Series playoffs but, Boston, you had a run in your red pussy stockings - LOL It was the wrong KIND of run tho' -- Sunday night you needed BASEBALL runs and you didn't do it! I know... the blue cowbells musta thrown you off! So sorry...

SAY HEY, RAYS! Thanks to you, I now have a date for a World Series game with the Wing House bartender from the new WH 2009 Calendar known as Miss May! I certainly hope she MAY! (Don't tell her I said that -- it was a cheap joke, but I couldn't resist playing with the words.) She is gorgeous, tan, sexy, and still uses a "special" I.D. at sports bars in the area! Oh yes, she has 2 very small, feminine tats and piercings! And, if I get a special kiss, I'm gonna tattoo her initial on my WH Memorial Bicep! Stay tuned... Now, back to housecleaning!

HNT #34: Not Sure What I Had for You in my Computer

Let's see what I can find.....




Ah, yes... Here's a special, young friend of mine who will vote in her first election this year! She made some special pics just for me. We're May - December, you know. She wants to make some more pics BY and WITH me, she said. Guess I'm still a little shy....I've really been celibate way too long! LOL

But I really have to get "my place" presentable first. I just wouldn't be comfortable with it otherwise. With that in mind, I'd better get started cleaning..... C Ya!

PS: Happy HNT! (Leave lots of comments, K?)

I didn't know Hospice does grief counseling for ex-spouses, too!

I've been keeping up text messages and a phone call every day or two to each son. Idea is to check on their adjustment, to make sure they seem to be adjusting OK to their mother's death less than a week ago, and to share ideas and facts on the evolving situation as it gives me special insight into our personal story!

So far, things seem to be going alright. The older son, especially, is making all the arrangements for her body to be cremated in Tallahassee and have her ashes scattered on her extended family's main ranch, El Colorado, in south Texas. I'm sure he is learning a lot of new things dealing with probate attorneys, etc. Once I got a copy of her death certificate, do you think I'll be able to convince my tax attorney he really ought to get the IRS to collect her taxes from HER estate instead of directly and wrongly from ME, like they have tried to do for 20 years, now? I TOLD you she would still be causing me trouble because of her self-centered narcissism! Her body wasn't the only thing that was sick!!

"Ding, Dong.... the Witch is Dead!"

[Copyright 2000, all below by this blog's author]


TERMS OF ENDEARMENT

Once you have a relationship
you can never
Not-have-a-relationship
til one or the other [de]ceases.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder
Or
Out of sight, out of mind
But, not nothing.

Til ONE is nothing.
And then you have --- a memory.



I don't know what pic I'll find to post. I have none of her anymore. But I will extend the 24 hours a little that I gave not to speak ill of the dead. She passed away at 12:25 AM, Wed., 8 Oct 2008 in the ICU of a Tallahassee hospital. She told our sons to go home the preceding evening and, "See you tomorrow." About 2:30 PM of that "tomorrow," I started to get phone calls while I was in the shower and had left the phone by this computer. By the time I heard the urgent, second set of rings, I sensed what they must have been about. Checking the cell's "last call list," I found an uncharacteristically-timed call from my best friend in Tallahassee. My friend confirmed what I had expected. He had called when I didn't answer the sons' previous 2 calls from the shower.

He was surprised that I had no change in attitude or plans about what I was or was not going to do. It figures 'cause he has little psychological insight into ANYone's behavior or what causes it, ANYway! (History "majors" must understand facts, not relationships.) Which leaves him in the cold about any real understanding of the "no-fault" misery she is STILL causing me! WORSE than worthless... Thanks for NOTHING, EX-. We really did NOT deserve each other!

HNT #33: Flash Your Boobs, Baby! It's A-OK from Oct 1 - 7 !

For All My Sexy Friends with Breasts: ANY SIZE, ANY SHAPE, ANY COLOR, ANY DISPLAY!!

Oct 1 - Oct 7th is the quick once-a-year-week fun online fundraiser

to protect & preserve ALL boobies from Breast Cancer!

It's free and will get donations to fight breast cancer from people (like ME!!) who will gladly make a charity donation to see everyone's boobies displayed ONLY during this one week!

It's called "THE BOOBIETHON!" IT'S FREE AND FUN! Click the link below to find out the details so you can be one of the first to post (no other parts are shown except BOOBIES, WONDERFUL BOOBIES!) So it's very anonymous if you are too shy to represent your boobs personally. (I hope u aren't).

I wouldn't wish breast cancer on my worst enemy (my ex- is dying of it right now from a recurrence after 15 years in remission), and you should know that men can get breast cancer too! They will gladly show man-boobs too so, if you see some permanently-erect nipples there with just a little hair around them, it could be ME (one of you knows what mine look like--guess who?)

http://www.boobiethon.com/site/submit/

Thanks for considering it, Ladies, AND SPREAD THE WORD ---- CUZ TIME IS SHORT!!

My Ex- is Dying. I might as well Blog it!

I really wasn't gonna post an article this week-- just the sexy pics to the right from local ads on Craig's List (craigslist.com). But fucking Charlene, one of my best "platonic blog-buddies" (we just say the F word, not do it w/ each other. LOL) changed my mind. Charlene amazed me with a very complimentary and unexpected listing on her sexy site which just won a nice award! See http://charlene-in-ar.blogspot.com/ She implied I had a blog worth checking out, so how could I leave her high & dry? Don't really have a pic to use. I'm doing my OWN form of grieving these days, I'm sure.

Two nights ago I texted my younger son and actually got a reply from my older son (he normally lends the cell to his Bro for a graveyard-shift, security job.) I was surprised as #1 told me his mother was not doing well at all and that is why he has been incommunicado for the last month or more! Ex- got breast cancer shortly after she bailed out of our longterm marriage, "no-fault", a decade ago. It's been in remission but she started having trouble again last year. Her communication with me has always been most dysfunctional and manipulative in a passive-aggressive (closed-mouth) way.

My adult sons live with her in Tallahassee now to help pay the monthly bills. I KNEW they would pick up her terrible communication ways, Dammit! But no one listens to ME cuz I've only taught an Interpersonal Communications course to Juniors and Seniors at Florida State University for a few years! I was only licensed to diagnose & treat mental health problems for 10 years as a Florida Licensed Mental Health Counselor. Don't listen to ME (particularly, if your typical personality coping mechanisms include Denial and Projection!) [Believe me, I understand empathically the essential details of her Past causing that, too.] But no matter how badly she treated me through lies and deception as long as I've known her, you (Dear Reader) have not had a chance to suffer the same treatment so you will be inclined to dislike my negative comments about her, truthful as they are.

Here's my point though. Older son texted me back with the excuse that he had been incommunicado because he has been taking care of her. Here's the exact text msg (sic): "Bro 'n I havnt told you for the reason u'll be glad when she dies then she cant suck the life out of ya." Well, Crap -- that is rather UNTRUE but, by not communicating about her for over a year, how the hell could I give info feedback to correct the GIANT MISPERCEPTION he has been harboring. I texted him straightforwardly, "That's NOT TRUE! I HATE her & what she's done but I don't want her to die because that will just make MORE problems for me!" Not the least of which, I explained, is that I am concerned about how upset and disoriented THEY are going to be over her death. I emphasized how critical it is that both sons get into some decent grief counseling program with a licensed psychologist or mental health or grief counselor.

AGAIN, I emphasized how essential that is right now -- especially since they ignored my advice on this a YEAR ago. "Hey, it's only Dad -- Fuck HIM! What does HE know?" Thanks a lot for what you've produced, my twisted Ex-. You are NOT "the Bitch" you told the sons you had been to me (cuz that gives you an excuse, you think.) You WERE, however, a Fucking Asshole! Even with Death, you will keep me from getting fair treatment!

SCROLL DOWN 2 SEE THURSDAY'S HNT #32 for 18 Sept. Check HNT's 31-30 below it, too! ;-)

WOULD SOMEONE PLEASE GET THE BLOGGER SOFTWARE WIZARDS TO USE BETTER HUMAN FACTORS ENGINEERING AND ERGONOMICS TO FIX A VERY SIMPLE GLITCH IN THE BLOGGER SOFTWARE? I HAVE HAD A TERRIBLE TIME POSTING ON A PARTICULAR DAY WHEN THE DATE SHOWN ON THE POST IS NOT THE DATE I CLICKED "PUBLISH POST" ON!

IDIOT BLOGGER MAKES IT LOOK LIKE I ACTUALLY POSTED ON THE DATE WHEN I ONLY BEGAN WRITING THE POST! THIS IS CRAZY AND CRAZY-MAKING!!

BLOGGER.COM GUYS -- SHOW THE DATE I ACTUALLY POST THE LATEST UPDATE AS THE ACTUAL DATE ON THE POST!! SURELY, YOU CAN DO THAT!

Guess Who I'm Voting For?!

HNT #32 - Angelo Dundee & Me!

I don't know if I was psychic in shaving my beard down to a "biker
'stache" a la Orange County Choppers (TV) fame. But do I look more like a boxing enthusiast this way, or what?

And it's only appropriate -- that's Angelo Dundee, world-famous trainer of Muhammad Ali at Angelo's 5th Street Gym in Philadelphia, PA. I had forgotten how MANY other Champion boxers he trained, to mention only Sugar Ray Leonard and George Foreman for now. (What MORE do you want?) OK, MANY more & he's now training Hector "Macho" Camacho on Camacho's current "comeback" in Texas! Macho won his July fight and is looking very good.

Angelo looks pretty good, too, but I was wilted when my favorite female bartender at WingHouse asked if he was about MY age -- say WHAT!!?? [God, I gotta lose more weight!] Since we were AT WingHouse where he & an agent had a whole display table of souvenirs (8 x 10 glossy pics of Muhammad and Angelo w/ hair, autographed red Everlast gloves, and autographed REAL Boxer shorts), my bartender babe had first-hand view of us both!

Andrea may have been fooled by my exhilaration at Angelo's telling me HE was an "Air Corps" vet and how we were immediately bonded as "brother Air Force vets." He signed his autograph "From one AF vet to another~Angelo" (459th Special Services Sq -- he clearly remembered his V-E Day unit)! I guess younger girl-people don't know Air Corps means WW2 (not Korea, Vietnam or later). Since he's shaved his head, he probably DOES look younger than his 85 years!!! And he IS in great shape! But Dear Readers, tell me in your Comments, don't I look younger now without my beard? How MUCH younger than I USED to? C'mon, lemme know!

OK, Andrea, my bar tab is going to be much lower as I make my diet much stricter so that I'll look 30 years younger than Angelo on his next visit! {And I still love you, BUT...Gimme a Break!} LOL

HNT #31 - Upside Down!

EPIPHANY


I must be in middle age


Young folks treat me old


Old folks treat me young


And everything's turned


nwod

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